according to Narayan Baba  he likes to create three different levels of relation which are as following.

(1)   THE SECRET AND ABSOLUTE DEVOTIONAL LOVE WITH GOD

In this first category of relation we can select one name of God as an private or informal way which keeps us fresh, comfortable and confident as well.

Although there are many name of God and many style of surrender here is just one.

Narayan Baba LIKES TO SURRENDER ALL OF HIS UNDERSTANDING, DEEDS AND THINGS TOWARDS THE LOTUS FEET OF BHAGAWAN SHREE RADHAKRISHNA AS HIS ULTIMATE DESTINATION.

 A COMPLETE DEVOUT TOWARDS BHAGAWAN SHREE RADHAKRISHNA FOR THIS PURPOSE ONE CAN SELECT ONE COMMON NAME ALSO LIKE THAKUR JI BIHARI JI, RAMA, LALA, KRISHNA, GOPAL, MOHAN, MURALI MANOHAR, RADAHAKRISHNA, RADHA DAMODHAR, GOVINDA, RADHA, LAXMI, SEETA, LORD BUDDHA, JESUS, ALLAH ETC. 

Note: There should not be any hesitation to realize that Jesus is also another form of Lord Krishna and Lord Krishna's form is another form of Allah.

 FOR EXAMPLE HERE Narayan Baba SELECTED BHAGAWAN / GOD IN THE FORM OF 'RADHAKRISHNA' it means his ultimate target to get the 'DEVOTIONAL LOVE OF GOD' because it was the GREAT incarnation to fulfill the purpose of 'LOVE'. There are mainly five type of Bhakti (Devotion love) due to the different idea or interest of  devotees. 

(1) Dasya or Love towards God as considering Master: For example Shree Hanuman had this type of Dasya Bhakti towards his Master Lord Shree Rama. This type of devotee can have the opportunity to do the personal service of Lord. 

(2) Sakhya or Love towards God as considering  friend: For example Arjuna had this type of Sakhya love towards his friend Lord Shree Krishna. This type of devotee can have the opportunity to co-operate in the Leela (work) of God.

(3) Batsalya or love towards God as considering Child: For example MotherYeshoda had this type of Batsalya love towards her son Lord Shree Krishna. This type of devotee can have the opportunity to give love and take care of Lord as supposing their the own child.

(4) Aishorya or love towards God as considering King: For example beggar and king has this type of Aishorya. This type of devotee can have the opportunity to realize the astonishing standard of Lord. 

(5) Madhurya or Love towards God as considering beloved as well as all forms: For example Gopinies or beloved friends of Narayan Baba has this type of Madhurya Bhakti towards their all in all Lord Krishna.  To get or achieve that goal 'Absolute Prema Bhakti' (devotional love or 'Maadhurya or Gopi Vaab') is a ultimate devotional stage for a devotee. In this Maadhurya Vaab all above Vaab can exist. This is the secret Love with God and Gopinies are the supreme teacher of this Vaab. In this Vaab there is no any fixed system, method, role or regulation for Love. There is no any personal desire of the devotee. Whatever is the desire or interest of Lord RadhaKrishna that would be the desire or interest of devotee also. It means they do not have any personal interest, all their interests have been completely surrendered in the favor of Lord's interest in Vaab of  'Tatshukhi Sukhitwam'    

If Narayan Baba has chosen himself to remain as member of the big family of God, there should be some more certain status, obedience, respect, role and regulation to give the proper respect and honor to the elder and honorable personalities of the family.  For this purpose he has defined orders somehow considering the distinguished member of his family as following ways. 

First of all he respects and bow towards LORD SHIVA AND BRAHMAJI as the form of father of Narayan Baba and  SHAKTI (DURGA, SARASWOTI, MAHA MAYA, SUPER-NATURE) as the form of Narayan Baba's Mother. According to devotional understanding Lord SHIVA or father of Narayan Baba has the greatest authority to provide the devotional love of RadhaKrishna. For this purpose one more honorable relation with 'GANAPATI BABA' as the form of 'BABA of Narayan Baba' in this higher category to fulfill the Mission without any disturbance.  

(2)   HONORABLE RELATION WITH DEMIGODS OF SECOND CATEGORY

Narayan Baba considers this is the main category where all human always would get the spectacular examples to learn more and more in order to broaden and increase our inner qualities, way out, discipline, understanding and Shradha by learning their contributions and understandings. In this category there are many personalities and figures whom Narayan Baba has divided into still another three secondary relations as following.

(i) Gurudeva: Narayan Baba prefers to make one honorable relation with  SOTRIYA BRAMHANISTA GURUDEVA (A spiritual teacher having great Love and knowledge with God). As considering mentally and physically poor being who do not have the proper quality, hence,  right to approach directly to the God it would be very much comfortable if he has one guide (Guru) to carry on in every steps.

(ii) Brothers and Sister of Narayan Baba: (Bharat, Laxman, Satrughna, Bal Ram, Nandi, Indra, Barun, Yama, Kuber, different Lokpal, Dikpal, Kausalya,Yoshoda, universal personalities like Sun, Moon, Earth, Ocean, Mountain, Himalayas, Ganga ect.

(iii) Acharya (teacher) of Narayan Baba: Gopinies, Sanakadik Munindra, Rishi munies, Bramharishies, Rajarshies, Devershi, Sankaracharyas, Nimbarka Muni, Ramanujachaya, Madhayachaya, Chitanyaji Mahapravu) etc. 

(4) Friends of Narayan Baba: Praladha, Narad, Parasar, Pundrik, Byaas, Ambarish, Sukadeva, Saunak, Vishma, Dalmyan, Rukmanga, Arjun Bashista, Bivishana, Sudhama, Tulashi Das, Surdash, Dhurba, Kabir, Nanak, Udhaba, Kunti, Sabitri, Draupati, Sabari, Mira, Tuka Ram, Ekanath, Yudhisthir, Veem, Nahakula, Sahadeva, Bidur, Akrur, etc.

Note: Having such personalities in the family Narayan Baba feels very encouraged by stories of the love and the sacrifice of Gurudeva, friends, brothers sisters, and Acharya's. Knowing such understanding and contributions made by such great souls keeps  him naturally fresh and enthusiastic. These all members are the source of Noble Energy for Narayan Baba.

(3)   THE MATERIALISTIC RELATION OF THIRD CATEGORY

All of our physical relation belongs in this category like father, Mother, Brother, Sister, Father in law, Mother in law, Sister in law, Grand father, Grand Mother, Son, Daughter, Grand son, Grand Daughter, Son in law, Daughter in law and all different relation of family, like this way the relation of neighbor, relation of same society, relation of same country relation of same continent, relation of global human being and as well as the relation of all beings due to human quality. There are so many other ways to create the relation like that of the same religion, same culture, same language, same understanding, facing same problems, same standard, same qualities, Same feeling, Same sensibility etc. The human being likes to create this relation with all materials of this nature. Nature has provided the quality of justification how to behave and keep the friendly relation with other being. 

Note: This is the category for physical activities so in this category of relation we should not necessarily need to respect in inner level but still there is need to give assurance by our activities that we are the nice person and really trying to fulfill the social expectations. Our external activities can play major role to show our personality in this category of family. If we are doing just believable drama in front of the society then we would not disturb the natural flow of society. External doings make difference in this level which does not have any effect in first and second level of relation Our positive inner mind and kind heart is not much worthy here but this would be the only greatest aspect in upper levels.

When we gradually confront this reality then we naturally start to feel ourselves as very poor (Dinata) and empty, then our relations would be  naturally more and more strengthened with our ultimate relative, God. 

This is just an out line on how to create our personal relation with God and his big family. After creating this great family relation, gradually one starts to feel very comfortable. Every one can practically try to do this....or Radhe ! Radhe !! 

Similarly, everybody can perform all his/her duties in the name of the God and when he/she  faces any incident then he/she can try to understand the Mercy of the Lord RadhaKrishna, the cause of every causes. We can try to observe and understand all negative and positive incidents are happening with us due to our previous life's Vasanas or attachments or deeds. It is not necessary to make any pre-understanding for a devotee that he should do this or that. Regarding the situation and condition he can try to do any work if that is required by the society or his inner heart. One should practice to surrender all his daily activities to the God. We can observe that our achievements or failures are not due to our doings and abilities. 

Here, Sadhaka (Student for Sadhanas) needs to be carefully aware that RadhaKrishna means not only double figures, it is one and all at the same time. Our material mind normally do not understand this fact or reality. Still go ahead....wait and observe continuously. Radhe ! Radhe !!